女人的芳心,才是真正的男人之愛(ài)。男人最愛(ài)女人的容貌嗎?NO!
孤獨(dú)是碰觸靈魂的最佳時(shí)機(jī),當(dāng)我們身陷孤獨(dú)時(shí),你最渴望的心靈伴侶愈加明朗。怎樣才能贏得女人的芳心呢?現(xiàn)在你有機(jī)會(huì)改變現(xiàn)狀!女人和男人一樣渴望伴侶,她們也在尋覓!
So life can get very lonely from time to time, and you often find yourself asking: how can I meet more women? I know that feeling and have felt it many times before. Who has not had those nights of intense loneliness? First things first, you have to understand that women have the same feeling, and then that with confidence, you can remedy your situation.
即使你自我感覺(jué)不好,也一定要表現(xiàn)自信。第一步:挑一套能增加你自信的衣服。褶皺牛仔襯衫或許是個(gè)不錯(cuò)的選擇。自信是讓女人對(duì)你產(chǎn)生好感的金鑰匙,這可是千金也買不來(lái)的。
So let’s start at the basics. Confidence, even when you think you are the least cool person in the world, you need to look confident. So step one: put on a pair of clothes that scream confidence. Maybe a button down striped shirt with some dark jeans. It needs to have some sort of attitude of its own so it gives off the impression that you don’t hate yourself as an individual. Confidence is the golden ticket to getting women interested, and without it, no amount of good looks or money will get you a woman.
去酒吧的時(shí)候要清楚自己的強(qiáng)項(xiàng)。我看起來(lái)不像Brad Pitt自然也就不會(huì)去Brad Pitt迷們的酒吧。我常去輕松的舞廳,因?yàn)槲疑瞄L(zhǎng)跳舞也能通過(guò)這種方式認(rèn)識(shí)女孩兒。舞廳是認(rèn)識(shí)美女的好地方,可如果你對(duì)跳舞一竅不通,你可能就會(huì)在那出盡洋相。相信我,女孩兒不會(huì)拒絕自信的男人,因?yàn)樗龝?huì)認(rèn)為你很成熟而且能夠處理好自己事務(wù)和感情的人。自信讓你成為有安全感的男人,這是絕對(duì)的吸引力。
So when you get to a bar, know your strengths. I don’t look like Brad Pitt so I stay away from bars where everyone does. I go to dive bars and relaxed dance clubs. I know I can dance and pick up girls that way, but if you cannot, stay away from the dance club. I know the dance club seems like the perfect place to meet beautiful women, but if you cannot dance, you are not going to have a successful night. So of the other options, the answer to me is the dive bar. This environment gives you the ability to talk to plenty of women in a social setting. If you look confident, girls will not reject your approach because you seem to have done this before. Girls are drawn to confident men because they act as if they are self sufficient, and biologically, women are attracted to men who are able to fully provide. There is not better example of a good provider than a man who is able to demonstrate that he can take care of himself and his emotions fully. Confidence is the key to attracting women, and single handedly it will work, but alas more tips will make it even easier.
不要表現(xiàn)的過(guò)于熱情。和男人一樣,女人也會(huì)對(duì)不那么容易追到手的男人感興趣。過(guò)于殷勤會(huì)暴露你的不成熟。在酒吧同女孩兒聊天時(shí)盡量也要和其他人交談,不要局限為兩個(gè)人的對(duì)話。不是讓你忽視這個(gè)女孩,而是切忌表現(xiàn)的過(guò)于殷勤。你要不時(shí)地表現(xiàn)出對(duì)談?wù)撛掝}不感興趣來(lái)爭(zhēng)取主動(dòng)權(quán),這樣讓她來(lái)想辦法吸引你的注意。讓對(duì)方感覺(jué)她想了解你更多是非常重要的。
Never seem too interested. Just like men, women are drawn to men that are not too easy to get. Men that give a woman too much attention seem desperate and not self sufficient. When talking to a girl in bar, try your best to talk to others and take that conversation away from just the two of you when the opportunity arises. I am not saying that you ignore a girl, but it is important to not seem desperate for their company. You need to seem a little bored or disinterested every once and awhile to force her to try to keep your attention. This also helps you maintain the upper hand in the discussion which leads her to believe she wants you more than you want her. This important skill is crucial when talking to a woman.
最后記得向她要手機(jī)號(hào)碼。得到號(hào)碼后要隔幾天再打給她。她需要明白你并不是第二天一整天都在想她。幾天之后的電話會(huì)讓女孩兒覺(jué)得你生活很忙碌,她的加入會(huì)對(duì)你們兩個(gè)都有好處。女人不喜歡剛接觸就粘上你的男人,所以等待幾天是建立關(guān)系的好開(kāi)端。我了解你想馬上約她的心情,但是還是等上幾天來(lái)顯示你的深沉吧。
Finally, remember to get her number, and when you do, wait a few days before you call. She needs to think that you were not thinking about her the entire next day. Waiting a few days before calling a girl reminds her that you have a busy and fulfilling life, and for her to become part of it would be good for the both of you. A woman does not want a man that is too needy or attached at an early stage, and waiting a few days is a good way to establish. I know when you meet a girl- your first instinct is to call her the next morning- but you need to wait a few days to once again show her that you are not desperate.
最后要強(qiáng)調(diào)的一點(diǎn)是千萬(wàn)不要表現(xiàn)的粗魯。或許你的冷漠頹廢自負(fù)的酷哥形象能讓你身邊美女如云,但是這種仍是不可取的。這并不是我建議大家做的。做一個(gè)體面大方的男人或許不能讓你贏得很多女人的青睞,可這是你正確的選擇。
The last thing I want to say through all of this is never be rude. I know the easiest way to get many girls is by acting like you are not-interested at all and a generally not pleasant person. I know that being rude and arrogant works well with ladies and certainly can be enjoyable in many ways, but this type of behavior is not okay. It is certainly not what I am advocating above. Being a decent human being might not get you as many women, but it’s the right thing to do. Please remember that.
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