This is the articles I found on the net.
Why cyber sex makes people indulge?
Psychiatrist doctor CAI told reporters, cyber sex is the language and network teaser video tools for masturbation type erotic behavior, it does not involve any physical contact, also won't expose her original look, so it can remove people in real sexual contact the shy flu often produce for those "unsafe" provides a safe and places. Meanwhile, the network of sex object is not sure don't have specificity, it can provide different sex object, so it has a constantly changing "novelty". Both "safe" and "novelty", under the action of cyber sex is easy to enable participants to stop.
Participate in network sex is very mixed crowd class, and sexual depressed person with "hooking up, they are involved with different: the level also discretion.”
General Cool Hunters mostly in chat rooms or through QQ chat, watch ornography in pornographic pictures or download pornographic movies; Sex is through the anguish of more video system; the audio-visual virtual sex.
In Internet poll reporter discovery, the cyber sex ultimate ending is mostly to the reality of one-night stands, in some pornographic web sites and some of the porn sites released the cleaner, a large amount of cyber sex ones one-night-stand left after "memorial" pictures. And in these textures surfers, is wanton nasty erotic gentie evaluation.
Story: (slightly)
Experts Point
Sociologists: emphasize the physiological cheerful, ignore spirit .
"Cyber sex exists is sensible, but it's definitely against traditional moral." The anonymity of social psychology experts say, people say that the cyber sex is harmful, because it does not conform to the traditional mode, the default standard sex, and the world in the development, from limiting talk about sex, until now sex readings literally visible, adult things can be bought, network with the premise of sex in development, can say is a new sex implementation.
However, new things doesn't mean it is good thing, although followers thinks the Internet sex can care, reduce the spread of disease separation, and eliminate sexual tension, reduce sexual crime many benefits, but the source overemphasis on it and ignore the physiological cheerful sex itself should have the physical and mental dual exchange. At this level, it is opposite the human and the nature.
The experts say, now is the time to control cyber sex, the emergence of Internet sex is actually people indulge natural emotion results, and too indulge natural emotion will be up for social emotions. And social emotions set a social responsibility, family responsibility, etc., but the responsibility that sustains the normal operation of the society.
Psychologist: health movement relieve pressure
If a person doubts his fascination with network of sex disease, psychology expert suggests they should adopt self diagnosis and cure measures of their own heart, on the one hand, they would tell their good friends or seek advice from a friend; On the other hand self-discipline, self-respect, through other health way (such as physical exercise, tourism and other relief work and learning pressure. Once remove psychological burden, with positive attitude face, he can be more accurately himself assessment, and to find a road back.
Chatting on the Internet, sometimes, some men wanted to take off their clothes, or asked me to take off my clothes, or put camera lower a bit. I refused.
Now, I want to hear everyone's thinkings. What does cyber sex mean for a man or woman? Will it hurt people?
網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛
―――寫于2011-5-16
聽說，很多人喜歡網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛，他們在網(wǎng)上進行性幻想、相互調(diào)情、結(jié)交性伴侶。這樣的人群正在變得越來越多。
這是我在網(wǎng)上尋找到的文章：
網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛為何讓人沉迷？
心理科大夫蔡醫(yī)生告訴記者，網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛是以挑逗性的語言和網(wǎng)絡(luò)視頻工具進行自慰式性愛的行為，它不涉及任何身體上的接觸，也不會暴露自己本來的面目，因此能夠消除人們在進行真實的性接觸時經(jīng)常產(chǎn)生的羞怯感，為那些“不安全”的男女提供了一個安全的場所。而同時，網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛的對象是不確定不具有專一性的，它可以提供不同的性愛對象，于是它又具有了不斷變化的“新奇感”。在既“安全”又有“新奇感”的作用下，網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛就容易使參與者欲罷不能了。
參與網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛的人群階層也非?；祀s，且性苦悶者與“獵艷者”、獵奇者兼而有之，他們所涉入的層次也高低有別：
一般獵奇者大多在聊天室或通過QQ參與色情聊天、觀看色情圖片或下載色情電影；
性苦悶者更多的是通過視頻系統(tǒng)進行的聲像虛擬性愛；
在網(wǎng)絡(luò)調(diào)查中記者發(fā)現(xiàn)，網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛最終的歸宿大多是走向現(xiàn)實中的一夜情，在一些色情網(wǎng)站以及一些非色情網(wǎng)站的貼圖區(qū)，發(fā)布著大量的網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛者們一夜情后留下的“紀念”圖片。而在這些貼圖下，是色情網(wǎng)民們肆意齷齪的跟帖評價。
故事：(略)
專家視點
社會學(xué)家：過分強調(diào)生理愉悅忽視精神
“網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛不管它的存在是否合情理，但它肯定是有悖傳統(tǒng)道德的。”一位不愿透露姓名的社會心理學(xué)專家說，人們說網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛有害，因為它不符合性愛傳統(tǒng)模式的默認準則，而這世界在發(fā)展，從限制談?wù)撔允?，到現(xiàn)在性愛讀物隨便可見，成人用品隨手可購，網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛在發(fā)展觀的前提下，可以說是一種新的性愛實現(xiàn)方式。
不過，新的東西并不意味就是好的東西，盡管追隨者認為網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛可以關(guān)愛兩地分居，減少疾病傳播，消解性欲張力，降低性源犯罪諸多好處，但它過分強調(diào)生理愉悅而忽視了性愛本身應(yīng)具有的肉體和精神上的雙重交流。在這個層面上說它是反人類和反自然的。
這位專家表示，現(xiàn)在是到了管制網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛的時候了，網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛的出現(xiàn)實際上是人們放任自然情感的結(jié)果，而過分放任自然情感將是對社會情感的放棄。而社會情感集合著社會責(zé)任、家庭責(zé)任等等，而這些責(zé)任維系著社會的正常運行。
心理學(xué)家：健康運動緩解壓力
而對于懷疑自己患有網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛癡迷癥的人，心理學(xué)專家建議應(yīng)采取自我診斷與醫(yī)治的措施，一方面將自己心中的擔(dān)憂說給最信任的人聽，尋求朋友的意見；另一方面自律、自愛，通過其他健康的方式（如體育鍛煉、旅游等）緩解工作及學(xué)習(xí)壓力。一旦脫去心理包袱，以積極心態(tài)面對，就能更準確地自我評估，開辟一條康復(fù)之路。
在網(wǎng)上聊天時，有時，我會碰到一些男人，他們想自己脫去衣服，或讓我脫去衣服，或把攝像頭放低一點。我拒絕。
現(xiàn)在，我想聽聽大家的想法。網(wǎng)絡(luò)性愛到底意味著什么？它會傷害人嗎
