We have all had one time or another where we have had a crush on a friend or even a best friend. If you are caught up in the crush and are enjoying the flirting and your friend doesn’t seem to mind, then that is fine. If it is the feel of the chase you love then you might need to mature a bit more in the relationship and love department before you attempt to make a move on your closest friend. This type of situation may lead to massive disappointment for both of you and injure what you have. If you are thinking of disclosing your hearts desire to your best friend and they have never shown you any love signs then you might want to think again. If you are lucky and you know that your best friend feels the same way then this might be an option for you to try, but if there is no reciprocation, flirtation or feelings, then your heart might be in for a let down. Love is such a precious feeling and has to be treasured and respected. It is good to truly sit down and think about why you want to take things further. Ask yourself these questions. Would they be a suitable match for me? Is there a future for us? Am I attracted to my best friend sexually? What are my real reasons? Am I afraid to be alone?
我們都曾經(jīng)會(huì)有那么一段時(shí)間忽然對一位朋友或是過去的好友產(chǎn)生情愫。假如你深陷其中，習(xí)慣了和你的這位朋友打情罵俏，假如他（她）不怎么介意，那還好說。如果你覺得這就是追逐真愛，那或許在試圖采取下一步行動(dòng)前，你得試著讓自己在對待友情和愛情關(guān)系方面更成熟一點(diǎn)。這種情況發(fā)展下去往往導(dǎo)致雙方失望透頂并傷害到之前已經(jīng)建立的關(guān)系。如果你打算現(xiàn)在就向你的朋友說出心里話，但他（她）卻從來沒傳達(dá)過任何愛的訊號，那你最好三思而后行。假如你足夠幸運(yùn)，而你的朋友和你心思一樣，或許這對你們還是一種可行的選擇。但是如果根本得不到什么答復(fù)，曖昧或感動(dòng)，你或許馬上就會(huì)心碎如焚。愛情如此寶貴，每個(gè)人都應(yīng)倍加珍視和愛惜。你最好還是坐下來好好問問自己為什么要發(fā)展到下一步。你需要回答這么急個(gè)問題：他（她）是我的天命真女（子）嗎？我們有未來嗎？我在我的好友眼里有足夠性吸引力嗎？我到底想什么呢？哥我是不是太寂寞了？
Sometimes it is better to keep a best friend a friend and stay that way. When you cross the line with your best friend, your friendship will be changed forever. Even if you can put what happened or what was said behind you, one of you may end up broken hearted because these feelings brought up were not acknowledged in the end. This can lead to resentment and jealousy in the future and destroy a friendship. Because two friends hang out so much together, the one that is in love or has an attraction begins to see themselves as a couple. This can end up becoming a distorted view and can result in so many painful feelings when the feelings are not returned. Unrequited love is a hard situation to go through and can take a long time to heal from. This is why in some friendships it is best to reconsider before taking the friendship to a new level.
有時(shí)還是保持朋友關(guān)系維持原狀的好。當(dāng)你捅破朋友之間的那層窗戶紙，你們的友誼就一去不歸了。即使你能把做出的事說出的話攬?jiān)谧约荷砩?，你們中間的某個(gè)也會(huì)因?yàn)橐呀?jīng)流露出的感情得不到回應(yīng)早就傷心透了。這終將導(dǎo)致怨恨猜忌并摧毀朋友之情。因?yàn)榕笥芽傂枰粼谝黄鹦斡安浑x的，一旦其中一個(gè)有了追求者或是愛上了誰，另一個(gè)會(huì)怎么想？因?yàn)楦冻龅貌坏交貓?bào)，這種憋屈之感會(huì)讓人備受煎熬。單相思是種很苦的病，不是那么容易痊愈的。這就是為什么在某些友誼中最好保持清醒，不要輕易跨過雷池。
Many people think how wonderful it will be to begin a new love relationship with their best friend. They are around all the time, they trust you, you trust them, their cute enough, they are a good friend..there is no reason not to! But there is something missing though and that is the level of love and passion that happens and sparks between two people when they fall in love. Make sure you really think this one over before making any sudden moves because your choice can result in three different ways. You either are best friends for life, broken hearted, or for the lucky ones; you have your soul mate. This is quite the gamble to take, so think it through before you jump the gun.
很多人會(huì)覺得和自己的密友開始一段戀情是多么美妙的事。他們總是陪著你，信任你，你也信任他們，他們夠可愛，他們是那么好的朋友。。。那么多顧慮多累??！但墜入愛河后迸發(fā)的熾熱火花和激情仍然與這有很大的境界上的差別。在你有所行動(dòng)前務(wù)必慎重思量，這可能導(dǎo)致三種結(jié)果。你們要么是生活中最好的朋友，要么徹底破裂，要么是那足夠幸運(yùn)的一對；你現(xiàn)在還有你的紅顏知己，拿這個(gè)來賭真的有點(diǎn)大了，所以在你以身試法前還是悠著點(diǎn)吧！
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