試問你自己你每天會和多少人交流.1個(gè),2個(gè),10個(gè)或者更多?我們都非常習(xí)慣于傳統(tǒng)的教育模式,以至于我們有時(shí)會忘記可以從課外學(xué)到的知識,我同意教科書能教我們生活中的必須掌握的很重要的基礎(chǔ)理論但我仍然認(rèn)為我們可通過和不同人的交流中拓展我們的學(xué)識. 我意識到盡可能和多的人交流會使我變得非常開朗.有些人習(xí)慣于和擁有相同興趣愛好的人談話.這本身沒錯(cuò).我們都愿意和跟我們有共同興趣和觀點(diǎn)的人相處,但是有時(shí)人們可能會由于害怕或者不想煩心而對了解與他們完全不同的人持很猶豫的態(tài)度.現(xiàn)在我問你.如果你將錯(cuò)失一個(gè)可以教你一些生活中十分有價(jià)值的東西或者用某些方法鼓舞你的人交流的機(jī)會將會怎樣.你可以從中發(fā)現(xiàn)嶄新的你自己. 我十分渴望學(xué)習(xí)投資,儲蓄和如何有效管理自己錢的非專業(yè)指點(diǎn).所以我詢問了我實(shí)習(xí)單位的主管.他是一個(gè)有很多財(cái)務(wù)經(jīng)驗(yàn)的本科生. 我詢問了他關(guān)于投資的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)，但更多的是關(guān)于經(jīng)濟(jì)方面的問題，他根據(jù)自己過往的經(jīng)歷盡可能的講訴給我。當(dāng)我離開了工作后對大學(xué)中所學(xué)的關(guān)于預(yù)算方面的問題有了更好的理解, 我可以未雨綢繆。如果我不是如此好學(xué)或者我根本不關(guān)心,那我可能永遠(yuǎn)也不會得到這方面的知識. 如果我只是坐在沙發(fā)上或桌子旁閱讀商務(wù)時(shí)報(bào)或者商務(wù)書籍,當(dāng)然我也可以得到有用的信息但要如何運(yùn)用自如還是相當(dāng)艱難的.當(dāng)你在個(gè)人層面上被他人相互影響, 當(dāng)你得到一些建議就會更多的精神力量滲入,你會感到更積極. 音樂人,CEO,成功的企業(yè)人,舞者,作家更有甚者會說三種以上的語言在兩個(gè)以上的城市居住..如果你想從這些人當(dāng)中學(xué)習(xí)有用的東西該怎么辦.我的觀點(diǎn)是你應(yīng)該走出去敞開心胸,充滿求知欲盡可能和多的人交流因?yàn)樗赡軙δ愕纳町a(chǎn)生十分積極的影響.只需要出去和別人交流,那就會出現(xiàn)讓你成為充滿智慧的人的機(jī)會.I have realized that I have become a very open minded person talking to as many people as I can. Some people have the habit of talking to people who share the exact same interest as they do. There is nothing wrong with that. We all love to spend time with people with our same interests and opinions, but sometimes people hesitate to get to know someone that is totally different maybe because they are afraid or don’t want to bother. Now let me ask you this; what if that person that you miss the opportunity to talk to can teach you something that is very valuable in life or maybe inspires you in some way. You might even discover something new about yourself.
I was very curious to learn about investments, stocks, and general advice on how to manage my money well, so I asked my supervisor at the company I interned at. He is a college graduate who has a lot of experience in finance. I asked him about risks on investments and more about the economy and he shared all he could with me based on his experience. By the time I had left work I had a better understanding of budgeting in college so I can save for the future. If I wasn’t curious or didn’t care I would have never received that piece of knowledge.
If I just sat their on a couch or table reading the business newspaper or a book yes I would be getting useful information but I would have a hard time knowing how to apply it to myself. When you are interacting with someone on a personal level, there is more emotional energy involved and you feel more motivated when you are given some piece of advice.
There are musicians, CEO’s, successful entrepreneurs, dancers, authors, and even people that speak more then three languages who have lived in more then two countries. What if you can learn something useful from all of these people. My overall point is that you should go out there and talk to as many people as you can and be open and curious to what they have to say because it can have a great positive impact on your life as well. You want to be someone that is full of rich knowledge. Maybe an opportunity will arise as well! But you just have to be out there talking to people.
