我們的情緒時時刻刻支配我們的個性命運。 日常生活中的正面或負面的情緒,這是一種內(nèi)心的慣有行為。所謂的慣有行為也包括普遍的世界觀、自信自語的行為和肢體的動作。 你的作業(yè)1:寫出5件事讓你產(chǎn)生負面情緒的過程,檢視為什么會有這些感受。 _________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________ 2.寫出5件事讓你產(chǎn)生快樂情緒的過程,思考如何經(jīng)常擁有這類正面的情緒。 ______________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________ 3.在此不妨的記錄中,寫下產(chǎn)生拖延習慣(猶豫不決)的原因,及如何改正的辦法。 拖延事件:_______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ 拖延原因:_______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ 拖延后果/最大損失:_______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ 如果完成的好處:_______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ 我對自己說:我必須:_______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ 如果此事繼續(xù)拖延,我會這樣處罰自己:_______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ 如果此事立即行動,我會這樣獎勵自己:_______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ 完成記錄: _______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________ |