(小步要搬家,把我的精華帖整理一份存在這里,地址目前如下)
(只搬了我自己的從開(kāi)始到6歲的總結(jié),后面那么多樓和其他媽交流及問(wèn)題的回答,目前實(shí)在沒(méi)有精力顧及,有想了解的媽媽去那里自己爬樓吧?。?/p>
(一) 媽媽們武裝自己,做好充分的準(zhǔn)備就出發(fā)!
從最開(kāi)始聊,我博里還是總結(jié)過(guò)一些的,重新整理:
中文閱讀是從好網(wǎng)開(kāi)始的(這塊兒就省略吧,咱要講英文),后來(lái)了解到原版繪本的概念,于是也開(kāi)始買。后來(lái)買到了信誼的那套世界優(yōu)秀繪本動(dòng)畫的光盤,很想把那些書也搬回來(lái),淘寶上的原版書店成了我溜達(dá)的新去處!
但真正觸發(fā)我的是,新浪笑媽的育兒日記,再后來(lái)就是知道了兒教論壇的兒童英語(yǔ)版,知道了小樓、硯兒。這些媽媽本身也不是英語(yǔ)專業(yè),但卻能把自己孩子的英語(yǔ)教的那么好!
于是買回了她們的書來(lái)看,買回了不知是誰(shuí)推薦的朗文的《圖解日常生活英語(yǔ)》。說(shuō)實(shí)話,這本《圖解日常生活英語(yǔ)》,書看上去那么不起眼(只要8塊9毛錢就搞定),但基本上日常生活的方方面面涵蓋了,能對(duì)孩子日常生活說(shuō)的話也就是那些。這本書是我當(dāng)時(shí)認(rèn)認(rèn)真真地學(xué)習(xí)了準(zhǔn)備對(duì)付Amy的第一本書,現(xiàn)在再拿出來(lái),書已經(jīng)是皺皺巴巴的了,但的確是起了很大的作用的!
我的突擊學(xué)習(xí)日常口語(yǔ),現(xiàn)在想來(lái)是對(duì)后面amy英語(yǔ)的神速進(jìn)展奠定了非常堅(jiān)實(shí)的基礎(chǔ)的,所以我覺(jué)得強(qiáng)調(diào)這一方面再多也不為過(guò)!
至于有些媽媽擔(dān)心自己的口音,不敢教孩子,只好指望著有標(biāo)準(zhǔn)口音的老師來(lái)教。讓我說(shuō),那樣的話實(shí)在是白白浪費(fèi)孩子寶貴的時(shí)間和您辛辛苦苦賺來(lái)的大洋。為啥這樣說(shuō)?因?yàn)榧幢闶峭饷媾嘤?xùn)機(jī)構(gòu)里的外教,有新西蘭、澳大利亞、非洲的等等等等,即使是美國(guó),南方、北方,每個(gè)州(比如加州、俄亥俄州等),甚至是紐約一個(gè)市里不同的區(qū)(比如曼哈頓和布魯克林區(qū)),口音差異都是巨大的。更遑論等您家的孩子上了學(xué),不知等著他/她的英語(yǔ)老師是啥口音呢?。ㄟ@個(gè)俺家已經(jīng)算是有一手資料了哈!
而且,就算是您運(yùn)氣好,真遇上了有neutral accent(播音員一樣標(biāo)準(zhǔn))口音的老師,就憑那每周可憐的幾堂課,孩子2年下來(lái)也還是會(huì)些單詞,聽(tīng)懂上課經(jīng)常說(shuō)的那幾句話罷了!amy同學(xué)身邊的孩子絕大多數(shù)都在上價(jià)格昂貴的英語(yǔ)培訓(xùn)班的,一個(gè)平時(shí)還算不錯(cuò)的孩子,我想跟她說(shuō)說(shuō),張口說(shuō)句子她就傻了,但倒是可以一個(gè)一個(gè)地蹦單詞!
但那些大膽地敢跟孩子說(shuō),敢給孩子讀故事的媽媽又取得了怎樣的成果呢?我博客上的好友媽媽都是親子英語(yǔ)的實(shí)踐派,結(jié)果證明基本上都是1年后,孩子就開(kāi)始自主閱讀繪本、甚或章節(jié)書了!取得了這樣的成果后,你還會(huì)擔(dān)心自己的口音問(wèn)題而把孩子的英語(yǔ)導(dǎo)入時(shí)間一拖再拖嗎??
把昨天在那個(gè)一年級(jí)小朋友媽媽里的帖子粘過(guò)來(lái):
真希望孩子英語(yǔ)出色的話,還是媽媽自己能在日常先跟孩子說(shuō)些口語(yǔ),該說(shuō)的口語(yǔ)網(wǎng)絡(luò)上都整理好了,比如媽媽之歌里的這些:
Get up now
Get up now
Get up out of bed
Wash your face
Brush your teeth
Comb your sleepyhead
Here’s your clothes and your shoes
Hear the words I said
Get up now! Get up and make your bed
Are you hot? Are you cold?
Are you wearing that?
Where’s your books and your lunch and your homework at?
Grab your coat and gloves and your scarf and hat
Don’t forget! You gotta feed the cat
Eat your breakfast, the experts tell us it’s the most important meal of all
Take your vitamins so you will grow up one day to be big and tall
Please remember the orthodontist will be seeing you at 3 today
Don’t forget your piano lesson is this afternoon so you must play
Don’t shovel
Chew slowly
But hurry
The bus is here
Be careful
Come back here
Did you wash behind your ears?
Play outside, don’t play rough, will you just play fair?
Be polite, make a friend, don’t forget to share
Work it out, wait your turn, never take a dare
Get along! Don’t make me come down there
Clean your room, fold your clothes, put your stuff away
Make your bed, do it now, do we have all day?
Were you born in a barn? Would you like some hay?
Can you even hear a word I say?
Answer the phone! Get off the phone!
Don’t sit so close, turn it down, no texting at the table
No more computer time tonight!
Your iPod’s my iPod if you don’t listen up
Where are you going and with whom and what time do you think you’re coming home?
Saying thank you, please, excuse me makes you welcome everywhere you roam
You’ll appreciate my wisdom someday when you’re older and you’re grown
Can’t wait till you have a couple little children of your own
You’ll thank me for the counsel I gave you so willingly
But right now I thank you not to roll your eyes at me
Close your mouth when you chew, would appreciate
Take a bite maybe two of the stuff you hate
Use your fork, do not burp or I’ll set you straight
Eat the food I put upon your plate
Get an A, get the door, don’t get smart with me
Get a grip, get in here, I’ll count to three
Get a job, get a life, get a PHD
Get a dose of,
“I don’t care who started it!
You’re grounded until you’re 36〃
Get your story straight and tell the truth for once, for heaven’s sake
And if all your friends jumped off a cliff would you jump, too?
If I’ve said it once, I’ve said at least a thousand times before
That you’re too old to act this way
It must be your father’s DNA
Look at me when I am talking
Stand up straighter when you walk
A place for everything and everything must be in place
Stop crying or I’ll give you something real to cry about
Oh!
Brush your teeth, wash your face, put your PJs on
Get in bed, get up here, say a prayer with mom
Don’t forget, I love you
And tomorrow we will do this all again because a mom’s work never ends
You don’t need the reason why
Because, because, because, because
I said so, I said so, I said so, I said so
I’m the mom, the mom, the mom, the mom, the mom!!
Ta da!!!
以上這些加下面的資源足夠你對(duì)付她的,我為什么這么強(qiáng)調(diào)第一步是先在日常生活中把口語(yǔ)說(shuō)起來(lái)呢?因?yàn)槌S玫木涫健⒕湫?、單詞就那么些,有了這個(gè)基礎(chǔ),接下來(lái)你給孩子讀故事或給她按分級(jí)讀物的故事循序漸進(jìn)地來(lái)聽(tīng),那就是順理成章的事情了。也會(huì)出現(xiàn)她聽(tīng)不懂的,就是個(gè)別單詞了,你只要稍加解釋就可以,但肯定不會(huì)出現(xiàn)孩子沒(méi)有一定基礎(chǔ),你就給她上故事上難度,讓她從一開(kāi)始就討厭英語(yǔ),認(rèn)為媽媽在逼著她做自己不想做的事的情況。
也就是讓她慢慢就上了英語(yǔ)的道兒了!從長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)來(lái)看,這是最簡(jiǎn)捷的途徑,也是最有效的途徑!
但這個(gè)前提是你肯那么一些功夫、吃那么一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)苦頭!而不是都把功夫留給孩子來(lái)做,你就是買來(lái)資料后做甩手掌柜,苦頭留給孩子自己吃!
按照這個(gè)方法走過(guò)去,我敢保證一年后她的英語(yǔ)能力會(huì)讓你刮目相看!不要在乎一年級(jí)的英語(yǔ)考了幾分,想想看,如果一年后你的孩子都開(kāi)始自己讀原版書了,你都會(huì)為自己因?yàn)橐荒昙?jí)的英語(yǔ)考了幾分糾結(jié)而感到好笑!
另,補(bǔ)充:
從零開(kāi)始,媽媽們需要掌握的日常生活英語(yǔ)資源:
書籍:
朗文的《圖解日常生活英語(yǔ)》 *****
我的第一本親子英文書 *****
東西圖書,張湘君的《跟小小孩說(shuō)英文》*****
(這本書無(wú)引進(jìn)版的,所以很貴,但很好。我是買phonics的書看到的,那時(shí)候我已經(jīng)用不到了,但里面有很多地道的句子是當(dāng)時(shí)我自己到處要找卻找不到的。電驢上有電子書和音頻下載)
難道你不懂英語(yǔ)口語(yǔ)嗎? ***
生活英語(yǔ)實(shí)戰(zhàn)實(shí)例