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So I am reprising a talk that I gave in september at Carnegie Mellon University. It is an acdemic tradition called the last lecture. Hypothetically, if you knew you are going to die,you got one last lecture,what would you say to your students?
我在卡耐基梅隆大學(xué)九月份做了一次演講，現(xiàn)在我在這里來再次作這個演講。"最后一個講座"在卡耐基梅隆大學(xué)是一個學(xué)術(shù)傳統(tǒng)。假如說，如果你知道你即將離開這個世界，你可以做最后一次講座，你會對你的學(xué)生講些什么？（注：其實在美國的很多大學(xué)都有類似的" last lecture”系列講座，比如說Stanford大學(xué)，Alabama大學(xué)，通常是讓學(xué)校的著名教授來假設(shè)這是他們最后的講演，那么什么對他們來說是最重要的，也就是說，在最后的時刻，把他們最希望分享給這個世界的人生智慧告訴所有的觀眾。）
Well, for me, there is an elephant in the room. The elephant in the room that for me is not hypothetical. I have been fighting pancreatic cancer. It is now coming back after surgery, chemotherapy and radiation.  And the doctors are telling me there is nothing more to do and I have months to live. These are my most recent CT scans. The pancreatic cancer is spread to my liver and there are approximately a dozen tumors.  I don't like this. I have three little kids. Let's be clear, this stinks. But I can not do anything about the fact that I am going to die. I am pursuing medical treatments, but I pretty much know how this movie is going to end. And I can not control the cards that are dealt, just how I play the hands.  Now if I am not morose enough for you, I am sorry to disappoint. But I don't choose to be an object of pity and in fact, although I am going to die soon, I am actually physically very strong.  In fact,  I am probably physically stronger than most of the people in this audience.(doing push ups).

那么，對于我來說目前房間里有這樣一頭大象，并且這頭大象不是虛擬的，它是真實存在的（房間里的大象這個英語成語是指有一件事大家不可能視而不見，但又不愿談及,譯者注)。我一直在和胰腺癌搏斗，而現(xiàn)在，在手術(shù)和化療放療之后，癌細(xì)胞又回來了。這些是我最近期的CT掃描圖片。胰腺癌現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)擴散到了我的肝部。目前我的肝臟里大約有十二個腫瘤。我不喜歡這個事實。我有三個年幼的孩子。毫不隱諱地說，目前的狀況糟糕極了。但是對于我將不久于人世這件事實我無能為力。我積極地尋求各項醫(yī)學(xué)治療，但是我很清楚這部電影將如何結(jié)束。我無法控制將會被發(fā)到什么樣的牌，但是我可以掌控手中牌的打法?，F(xiàn)在，如果我看起來不夠憂郁消沉，抱歉讓你失望了。但是，我選擇不讓自己成為被憐憫的對象。盡管我不久就將死去，事實上我的體力還非常的好。實際上，我可能比在座觀眾中的大多數(shù)人的體力還要好（randy開始伏在地上做俯臥撐）。 

So today's talk is not about death, it is about life and how to live.  Specifically about childhood dreams and about how you can try to achieve them---my childhood dreams, your childhood dreams.
那么今天的演講不是關(guān)于死亡，而是關(guān)于生活和如何去生活。尤其是關(guān)于童年的夢想，關(guān)于如何去成就這些童年的夢想--我的童年夢想，你的童年夢想。  

As a child, I had an incredibly happy childhood. I went back and raided the photo album. I could not find any places I wasn't smiling. Right?  I just had a great childhood...and I was dreaming, always dreaming. It was an easy time to dream when you turned on your television set and men are landing on the moon---anything is possible and we should never lose that spirit. So what were my childhood dreams? Being in the National Football league. This is one of the childhood dreams I did not achieved. Alright? And it is very important to know that  if you don't achieve your dreams, you can still get a lot by trying for it. There is an expression I love---experience is what you get when you don't get what you wanted. I played a little league football for a long time and I had a phenomenal coach, coach Jim Graham and he was old school. When I was at practice, he rode me all practice. You know you are

doing it wrong, go back and do it again,you are sluffing off, you owe me push-ups...just for two hours, it was relentless. And after practice, one of this assistance couches came up to me and he said:" yes, couch Graham rode you pretty hard". I said Yeah. He said" that is a good thing. Because it means he cares. When you are doing a bad job and nobody points out to you, that's when they've given up on you." and that is something really stuck with me,  is that when someone is going to ride you for two hours, they are doing that because they care to make it better.
孩提時代，我擁有一個極其幸福的童年。我在家里翻看相冊選取一些照片的時候，我找不到任何一張我不笑的照片。是不是？我的童年非常棒……我在夢想，總是在夢想（幻燈片randy童年夢想的照片）。那是一個容易去夢想的年代，當(dāng)你打開電視機，人類正在登陸月球--任何事情都是可能的，我們永遠(yuǎn)都不應(yīng)該失去這種精神。那么什么是我童年時代的夢想呢？進入全美橄欖球聯(lián)盟。這是我沒能實現(xiàn)的一個童年夢想。對吧？但是明白這樣一點很重要--即使你沒有實現(xiàn)你的夢想，你依然能夠從你努力嘗試去實現(xiàn)的過程中得到很多收獲。有這樣一個我非常喜歡的說法---即使沒有得到你想要的，你依然可以收獲經(jīng)歷（經(jīng)驗）。我曾學(xué)習(xí)了相當(dāng)一段時間的little league橄欖球（少年橄欖球），我有一個很杰出的教練，格拉海姆教練，他的教學(xué)法非常的傳統(tǒng)老派。當(dāng)我練習(xí)的時候，整個訓(xùn)練的過程中他對我不依不饒的。我看你做的不對，回去重做，你在投機取巧，你得給我做俯臥撐……整整兩個小時，非常殘酷無情。訓(xùn)練結(jié)束后，一位助理教練走過來對我說：“是啊，格拉海姆教練把你訓(xùn)練的挺狠的。”我說是啊。他說，這是一件好事。因為這意味著他很關(guān)心你。如果你做得很差而沒有人為你指出來，那也就意味著他們都放棄了你。這一幕往事伴隨了我一生，如果有人在兩個小時的訓(xùn)練中對你絲毫都不放松，這說明他們在用心使你做得更好。  

So next dream--Walt Disney imagineering. When I was eight, my family took the pilgrimage to  Disneyland in California and it was incredible experience. The rides, the shows, the attractions and everything ...and I said "gosh, I'd like to make stuff like that when I get older". So I graduated from college and I tried to become an imagineer. These are the people who make the magic. And I got a lovely rejection letter. And I tried again after graduate school and I've kept all the rejection letters over the years. They are very inspirational. But then the darnedest thing happened. You know I worked hard and worked hard and I became a junior faculty member and I specialized in doing certain kind of research...that's me...and I developed a skill that was valuable to Disney and I got a chance to go there and I was part of the imagineering team and we worked on something called magic carpet ride and it was incredibly cool.  However, it took me over fifteen years to do it and lots of lots of tries and what I learnt from that is that the brick walls that are in our way are there for a reason. They are not there to keep us out, they are there to give us a way to show how much we want it.
那么下一個夢想--作沃特迪斯尼的幻想工程師。在我八歲的時候，我們?nèi)胰ゼ永Ｄ醽喼莸牡纤鼓針穲@作了一次“朝圣之旅”，那真是一次無比美妙的旅行。那些有趣的娛樂項目，演出和景觀，所有的一切……然后我說：“天啊，等我長大了，我想造這些東西”。于是，我從大學(xué)畢業(yè)然后試圖成為一名幻想工程師。他們是制造奇跡的人。然后我收到了一封非?？蓯鄣木芙^信。研究生院畢業(yè)以后我又去嘗試，這些年來我積攢了所有這些拒絕函。這些信可真有激勵作用。后來最不可思議（豈有此理）的事情發(fā)生了。你知道，我努力的工作努力地工作，我成為一名年輕的大學(xué)教授并在某一特定領(lǐng)域有所專長……那（幻燈片里的人）就是我……我具備了一項對迪斯尼很有價值的技術(shù)專長我得到一個去迪斯尼工作的機會，我成為他們幻想工程團隊中的一員，我們共同著手開發(fā)一個叫做魔毯飛行的項目，那真是太酷了。但是，我花了十五年的時間和無數(shù)的嘗試才終于做到了這一切。我終于明白，那些（人生旅途中）擋在我們前進道路上的磚墻的存在是有道理的。他們的存在不是為了阻擋我們（實現(xiàn)我們的夢想），他們在那里是給我們一種方式來證明我們多么地渴望它（實現(xiàn)我們的夢想）。  

If you are going to have childhood dreams, I recommend you have good parents.I lucked out I have great parents. This is my mother, on her 70's birthday. I am the blur in the back, I have just been lapped. This is my father on his 80's birthday. There is this notion of have fun all the time. Have a sense of fun and wonder that should never go away.
如果你要有童年夢想，我建議你有好的父母。我無比幸運擁有了不起的父母。（幻燈片中的母親）這是我的母親，在她70歲生日的時候。（照片上）后面那個模糊的部分是我。我當(dāng)時剛剛被母親超過了一整圈（randy和母親在賽車游戲中，母親開得很快，剛剛拉了他一圈）。這是我的父親在他八十歲生日的時候。時時刻刻享受生活的樂趣，永遠(yuǎn)不要讓趣味感和對生活的探索精神遠(yuǎn)離我們。 

My dad, what an incredible guy! He fought in world war two. He was clearly part of the greatest generation. Sadly, my dad passed away a little over a year ago. And when my mother was going through his things that was when she discovered that in world war two, he was awarded the bronze star for a valor. In fifty years of marriage, it had just never come up. There is a real lesson in humility that I can learn from my father there.
我的父親，他是個了不起的人。他參加過二戰(zhàn)。很明顯他是那個最偉大的一代中的一員。令人難過的是我父親在一年多前去世了。當(dāng)我的母親整理他的遺物的時候，她才發(fā)現(xiàn)在二戰(zhàn)中，我的父親曾經(jīng)獲得過銅星英雄勛章。在五十年的婚姻生活中，竟然從沒有聽父親提起過。這是一個從我父親那里學(xué)來的謙遜做人的一課。
Now my mother. Mothers are people who love you if when you pull their hair. And this was the kind of relationship I have with my mother. And my mother, speaking of humility, was always there to keep me in check. When I was going through graduate school, I was taking really hard examinations. I was home pretty much complaining and whining about how hard this PHD tests were, and she just patted my arm and said, we know how you feel. Just remember that when your father were your age, he was fighting the Germans in World War Two. And the day came when I got my PHD, I was so proud and my mother introduce me to everyone as--this is my son, he is a doctor but not the kind that helps people.
現(xiàn)在談?wù)勎业哪赣H。（幻燈片出現(xiàn)randy小時候揪媽媽頭發(fā)的照片）母親是那些即使你扯他們的頭發(fā)他們還是會愛你的人。這基本上就是我和母親之間的這種關(guān)系。我的母親，談到謙虛，她總是在那里提醒我保持做人的檢省。當(dāng)我在研究生院學(xué)習(xí)的時候，我當(dāng)時有一些極艱難的考試?；氐郊依?，我就牢騷滿腹地抱怨這些博士學(xué)位的考試有多么不容易。母親拍拍我的胳膊對我說，我們知道你的感受，不過別忘了，你爸爸在你這個年齡的時候正在二戰(zhàn)戰(zhàn)場上和德軍作戰(zhàn)。當(dāng)我終于獲得了博士學(xué)位的那一天，我感到那么驕傲，我的母親把我介紹給大家說：這是我的兒子，他是個doctor,不過不是幫助人的那種doctor(英文中博士和醫(yī)生是同一個詞doctor) 。

Probably the most wonderful thing my parents did was let me paint my bedroom. I said one day I want to paint stuff on the walls and they said OK. So I had a rocket ship and we lived in a ranch so I wanted an elevator. I wasn't sure where it would go...and yeah, you can tell the nerds early so that was the quadratic equation. But the great thing is that they let me do it. And they felt that letting me express my creativity was more important than the pristine nature of the walls. I was really blessed to have parents who saw it that way. My parents taught me about importance of people versus things. So when I got older, I bought my first car and I was so excited. I had this shiny convertable,these were my nephew and niece christopher and laura and every month i take them for a weekend. So my sister and her husband can give a little break. And we go off for advantures. And I was just showing off my new car and my sister explained to chris and laura--that is uncle randy's new car, you can't get it dirty …… and they were just cracking up laughing because over her shoulder i was casually open a can of soda and just emptying it on the back seat and they come running over and my sister said what are you doing? And I said it is a thing, it's just a thing. I am really glad I did that because at the end of the weekend as I was driving them home, little Chris who was about eight at the time, had had the flu and he threw up all over the back seat of my car. And I don't care how much value you get out of owning a nice shiny pristine thing. It's not as good as I felt

knowing that I made an eight year old boy not feel guilty just because he had the flu.
大概我的父母所做的最偉大而絕妙的事情是允許我在我的臥室墻壁上涂鴉。有一天我說，我想在我的房間墻壁上畫些東西，他們說行啊。于是我畫了一艘火箭飛船。我們住的是大飼養(yǎng)場的房子（通常ranch指擁有很多土地的飼養(yǎng)場的房子，一般都為一層），所以我畫了一部電梯。我不知道這部電梯通到哪去……還有，對了，這里是一個二次方程式，從這里你能看到當(dāng)年那個書呆子。這里了不起的是他們讓我那樣去做了，他們覺得讓我表現(xiàn)自己的創(chuàng)造力比墻壁的完美無瑕來得更為重要。能有這樣見識的父母實在是我的福氣。我的父母還教導(dǎo)我人相對于東西是更為重要的。所以在我長大以后，我買了我的第一輛汽車，當(dāng)時我非常興奮。我擁有了這輛嶄新锃亮的convertible（頂棚可折疊收起的汽車）.這是我的外甥和外甥女chris和laura。每個月我都會帶他們過一個周末，這樣的話我的姐姐和姐夫可以有一點他們自己的時間。我們會出去做一些新奇的事。那時候我就向他們炫耀我的新汽車，我得姐姐忙著跟chris和laura解釋，這是 Randy舅舅的新車，你們可別把它給弄臟了……這時候兩個孩子開始迸發(fā)出大笑，因為隔著她的肩膀，我正隨意地打開一瓶碳酸飲料并把整罐飲料倒在后車座上。飲料流得到處都是，我的姐姐問你這是干什么呢？我說，這車是個東西，它不過就只是個東西。我很高興我這么做了，因為在這個周末結(jié)束的時候，當(dāng)我駕著車回家，當(dāng)時只有八歲的小chris得了流感，他把我的后車座吐的一塌糊涂。我不在乎擁有一個溜光錚亮完美無暇的東西能夠帶給你多大的價值。對我來說，讓一個八歲的孩子沒有因為自己得了流感而感到負(fù)疚，這讓我的感覺要好得多。  

Next thing, you better decide early on if you are a tigger or an Eeyore. Tiggers are energetic,optimistic. They are curious, they are enthusiastic and they have fun and never ever underestimate the importance of having fun. I am dying soon and I am choosing to have fun today, tommorrow and every other day I have left.
另外一件事，你們最好在年少時就決定你是跳跳虎還是依唷驢(童話中小熊維尼Winnie thePooh 的兩個朋友, 性格一樂觀, 一悲觀. 譯者注). [放畫有跳跳虎和依唷驢的幻燈, 文字內(nèi)容為決定你是跳跳虎還是依唷驢”]跳跳虎精力充沛，樂觀向上，他們充滿好奇心，充滿激情，而且他們始終生活的很有樂趣，并且從不低估樂趣的重要性。我沒有多少日子了，而我依然選擇充滿樂趣地去生活，今天，明天以及我所僅有的剩余的每一個日子。  

If you want to achieve your dreams, you better work and play well with others and that means you better live with integrity. Simple advice that you will find hard to follow--just tell the truth. Second thing, when you screw up, apologize. There are a lot of bad apologies in America. A good apology has three parts: I am sorry.It was my fault. How do I make it right? Most people skip that third part, that is how you can tell  sincerity.
如果你想要成就你的夢想，你最好能夠和其他人在工作和生活中和諧相處。這意味著你要正直地去生活，有一個簡單但是并不容易做到的建議--說真話。第二，當(dāng)你把事情搞砸了，道歉。在美國有很多很糟糕的道歉。好的道歉有三個部分：對不起。是我的錯。我該怎樣做才能彌補（挽救/更正）我的過失？大多數(shù)的人跳過了第三個部分。也正是這一部分可以讓你了解道歉的誠意。  

The last thing is that we all have people that we don't like, that have done things we don't like. And what I have found is that no one is pure evil.If you wait long enough,they will show you their good side. You can not make them do it in a hurry, but you can be patient.
最后一點是，我們都有我們不喜歡的人，那些作了我們不喜歡的事情的人。我發(fā)現(xiàn)沒有人是完全邪惡的。如果你能夠等足夠長的時間，他們會向你展示他們好的一面。你不能要求很快就看到他們的優(yōu)點，但是你要有耐心。  

Show gratitude. When I got tenure as a young faculty member, there are about 15 young kids have been working in my research lab. I took them all down to the disney world for a week on my nickle. One of my colleague said this must have cost you an arm and a leg. How could you do it? I said these kids just worked day and night for years so that I could get the best job in the world for life. How could I not do it? Gratitude is a very simple thing and it's a very powerful thing.
感恩。當(dāng)我作為一個年輕的大學(xué)教師獲得終身教職的時候，大約有15個孩子在我的實驗室工作。我自費帶他們?nèi)w到迪斯尼樂園去玩了一個星期。我的一個同事說，這一定花了你不少錢吧，你怎么舍得這么做呢？我說，這些孩子幾年來日夜辛苦工作使我獲得了世界上最好的終身職業(yè)，我怎么能不這么做呢？感恩是一件很簡單的事情，但是會非常的有影響力。  

And lastly, I don't think complaining and whining really solves the problem. This is Jacky Robinson, first black major leaguer, had it in his contract not to complain if people spit on him. Alright, I don't care if  you are Jacky Robinson or if you are a guy like me who's only got a couple of months to live, you can choose to take your finite time and energy and effort, and you can spend it complaining or you can spend it playing the game hard which is probably going to be more helpful to you in a long run.
最后我想說的是我不認(rèn)為牢騷抱怨能夠真正地解決問題。這是Jacky Robinson（幻燈片顯示Jacky Robinson的照片）。他是第一位參加重要聯(lián)賽的黑人棒球運動員。在他的合同里寫著即使人們朝他的身上吐痰，也不能抱怨。好了，不管你是Jacky Robinson還是一個像我這樣只有幾個月可以活的人，我們可以選擇用有限的時間，精力和努力來抱怨，也可以選擇去努力的打好這場比賽，后者從長遠(yuǎn)的角度來說可能對你更有幫助。  

Now I told you this is part of the lecture serials at Carnegie Mellon University and it is important for you to know why I gave this talk. The talk isn't just about how to achieve your childhood dreams. It is much broader than that. It is about how to live your life.Because if you lead your life the right way,the karma will take care of itself. The dreams will come to you. If you live properly, the dreams will come to you. And I think it is great so many people have benefited from this lecture.But the truth of this matter is that I didn't even really give it to the 400 people in the carnigie mellon who came...I only wrote this lecture for three people. And when they are older, they will watch it. Thank you.
現(xiàn)在我要告訴你這個演講是我在卡耐基梅隆大學(xué)系列講座中的一部分。讓你們了解我為什么做這個講座很重要。這個講座不僅僅是關(guān)于如何實現(xiàn)你的兒時夢想。它有著更廣泛的內(nèi)涵。它是關(guān)于如何去生活。因為如果你能夠正確地引領(lǐng)你的生活，命運之神自然會垂青你。你的夢想會自己來到你的身邊。如果你能夠正確地生活，你的夢想必然成真。能有那么多人從我的講座中受益真是太好了。而事實是，我其實并不真的是給卡耐基梅隆現(xiàn)場的四百多人做這個講座，我的這個講座只為三個人（幻燈片出現(xiàn)randy和他的三個孩子的照片）。等他們長大一些的時候，他們可以看到。謝謝。